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mamaaaaa5

We've been together for 2 years. We argue all the time.

Sometimes the smallest argument blow up.

Something I've always felt strongly about is if you love someone, no matter what, you always at least tell them you love them before leaving. (I lost a loved one in a car accident so it's a big thing for me)

Well this morning after a tiny argument, he decided to only say "see ya later". the argument was NOT that big. When he returned home, I was still mad. Which made him mad. I always let things go because I don't want to argue but I'm tired of being the one to back down.

Now he feels like he needs to hurt my feelings.. nothing new. But this time calls me a f@ hctib & tells me thats why he doesn't want to sleep with me. (He's been saying his sex drive is low because of medications he takes, for months) & he knows I'm insecure about my weight because my belly is not flat & we've talked about that many times. He also tells me that something must be in the air because his BM & her bf just broke up.. hmm...

After this I had to run errands so I didn't get back home until he was at work so he texts me about the trip we're supposed to take next month & tells me that if I'm not going that's fine because he'll take someone else.

I didn't respond because I'm just more annoyed with how disrespectful he is & I don't even know what to say.

Also, when I got home I looked & he took his viagra with him, while we were arguing he turned off his location & he changed his fb to where you can't see his relationship status. What would you do?

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Amyga2003

Sounds like a very immature and toxic relationship. End it and put yourself out of your misery. It takes a special type of lowlife man to comment on the body of a woman like that. You can do better than this idiot.

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niksmom

personally I’d leave. Doesn’t sound like he respects you at all and is pretty immature.

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Sounds like either he’s 19 years old and an idiot playing child games, or he’s told you exactly what he thinks of you and you should believe him.

He’s out there probably banging prostitutes with his viagra and you’re having thought other than leaving him? Why?

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mamaaaaa5

@DustyCupcake,

I’ve broke up with him before but he doesn’t leave & tells me that we’re not breaking up. & he’s about to be 45.

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@mamaaaaa5,

so maybe it’s time for you to leave. Or change the locks.

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@mamaaaaa5,

when he is away on this trip with someone else pack up all his stuff and change the locks. Make sure he knows he doesn’t get to control whether you are splitting up or not.

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ABCmama1621

you've passed it. if he isn't actively cheating on you already, he is threatening it. that along with the way you two talk to one another, you are passed enough being enough

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Enough is enough now. Leave.

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Assd

it is very much enough. no doubt..Not fixable

ps. i love you thing before leaving the house is a you problem.

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mamaaaaa5

@Assd,

I know it’s a me problem.. that’s what I said.. but we have talked about it many times. Anyway, I’m upset about the intentional disrespect. I don’t do things to intentionally hurt or disrespect him so I don’t believe I deserve to be treated that way

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@Assd,

yeah but PURPOSELY not doing the "i love you" when he KNOWS what is means to you is 100% an intentional a$$hole move and 100% a him problem.

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Assd

@Lili805,

i do not think so, i think OP needs to handle it differently. I her next relationahips with different man.
Because this one is absolutly *** and she should leave

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hey-sweetie

You both sound toxic & immature
Not a good combination.

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hey-sweetie

@mamaaaaa5,

This isn't a healthy home to raise / potentially raise any children in.

Leave the relationship, better yourself & make a more stable future.

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marvel93

So toxic I could not handle it. Break it off

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oh, all the rest in your post is sufficient to leave him..
but you felt like mentioning it in your post so i commented because this is different even if you explained him how you feel about it

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